Now, I know this is not a new thought and that Im not saying anything original here.
The times are changing as the saying goes, and the old rules no longer really apply.
Except one, and its this:
The right person will hold space for you.
Thought Catalog Agency
But what does that mean exactly?
To put it simply, holding space is an act of love.
To hold space for someone is to make room for that being to exist openly and authentically without judgment.
To hold space means you take someone for all that they are, even the messy, unpredictable portions.
The right partner for you will do just that.
They will not attempt to put back together your broken parts.
They understand that savior is not their role, and never will be.
When you are struggling, they will hold your hand but not take the wheel.
You need both to have your love thrive.
To hold space also means they will consistently show up for you.
Day after day, they will do their best to be present.
They wont be perfect, no one is, but most of the time, theyll get it right.
The right person for you wont just listen so you can wait for their turn to talk.
They will hear you to understand.
To get to know you better, and deeply.
But just remember that this isnt just about finding the right partner for you.
You also need to reciprocate and practice this behavior as well.
you’re gonna wanna be willing to hold space for them, too.
When looking for love, find the person you want to hold space for.
It will come naturally and youll just know.
And, hopefully, this person will want to hold some space for you, too.
If not, wait for the person who will.
Dont settle for anything less.
