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Updated 4 years ago,April 19, 2021
Timing.
I wrote a while backsoul mates that find their way back into each others livesafter fives years.
And messages still fill my inbox asking if we are still together.
Tony Ross
We want to believe that love is strong enough to beat doubts and uncertainty.
But the truth is there are factors outside our control that love alone cant beat.
Where someone might be mentally and emotionally.
The wounds from ones past that theyve buried so deep, that resurface only when love presents itself.
It is there they realize they cant be what their partner needs right now.
And one struggles for words that havent even admitted to themselves yet.
But there are some paths one must take alone and things they need to figure out.
You deserve someone who is there physically, mentally and emotionally.
And sometimes timing doesnt allow another person to check off all those boxes.
Relationships and emotions are complicated because you never really know whats going on inside someones head or heart.
And sometimes people dont voice confusion because they are trying to understand it themselves.
Its impossible not to.
Sometimes heartbreaking goodbyes are essential to finding your way again.
Sometimes it is only when you lose someone can they be found.
