They know they are stronger than whatever issues arise.
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Updated 6 years ago,October 21, 2019
The strongest couples have uncomfortable conversations.
They know their relationship is not going to end over one rough conversation.
Toa Heftiba
They know they are stronger than whatever issues arise.
Theybelievein their love for each other.
The strongest couples realize they are more powerful as a team.
They work best when they are working together.
They can overcome any hurdle as long as they swear to stick side-by-side.
That is why they make a silent pact to tell each othereverything.
They do not sob behind closed doors.
They cry on shoulders.
They do not beat around a topic.
They get straight to the point.
These couples do not believe in sugarcoating the truth.
They would rather rest easily at night, knowing there are no secrets between them.
There are no unspoken resentments.
Everything is out in the open.
The strongest couples spit out how they are feeling without worrying about being abandoned or causing a breakup.
The strongest couples are skilled listeners.
Theywantto know how the other person is feeling.
Theywantemotions to be shared.
They never blame each other for breaking down in tears or overreacting to a small situation.
They never use the wordscalm downor accuse each other ofacting crazy.
They are relieved their person is comfortable enough around them to have uncomfortable moments.
The strongest couples understand communication is the key to a lifelong relationship.
They are mature enough to talk about finances and insecurities and exes and sex.
Nothing is off the table.
The strongest couples are not the ones living in a fantasy land.
They are not the ones sweeping their disappointments under the rug to deal with at a later date.
They are not the ones putting on a mask, pretending everything is okay when they are secretly unhappy.
They are not the ones living a lie because the truth is too hard for them to swallow.
The strongest couples realize their relationship is not always going to be an easy ride.
There are going to be rough days.
There are going to be give-and-take arguments.
But there are also going to be compromises.
They are going to deal with their feelings like adults.
These couples know they can run to each other withanythingbecause nothing is going to break them apart.
Nothing is going to convince them to run.
