Being upfront and communicating with you would jeopardize his chances of sleeping with you.
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Updated 4 years ago,April 18, 2021
The truth is, he doesnt care about you.
If he respected you, he wouldnt string you along.
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If he saw a future with you, he wouldnt risk you being available to fall for someone else.
We all know what happens when we dont put effort into something.
The project isnt successful.
You wont learn a new skill if you dont work through the discomfort stage.
You wont be successful at a job if you dont intend to show up for it.
Showing up is what matters in life.
Its what you do when something (or someone) is important to you.
Seeing where it goes means he has no interest in seeing it go anywhere.
Hes ready to passively sit by and see you walk in and out of his life.
Nowhere in this equation is what may be beneficial for you.
The truth is, this man doesnt even care about your enthusiastic consent.
He isnt looking to invest in you, hear about your day, or even give you an orgasm.
Dont build an entire fantasy world in the space that vagueness creates.
Dont make excuses for him.
The guy who only wants to see where it goes is selfish.
He wants a fling and he doesnt care if you get hurt.
This isnt the way a good human being acts.
He would understand its wrong to treat people as if they are disposable.
There are a million ways to casually date or court someone that respect the dignity of all persons involved.
Typically, this requires an overabundance of communication.
See where it goes guy is not doing this.
Hes using a cheap line and counting on you not calling his bluff.
He isnt just being laid back and open-minded, hes refusing to have skin in the game.
The truth is, you deserve better.
You are worth more than someone who is lukewarm about the idea of getting to know you.
You deserve someone who makes the effort to be vulnerable and be real with you.
