While I absolutely adore that song, Ive got to say, that statement is false.
Now dont get me wrong, I am a huge supporter of the self-love movement.
For starters, self-love doesnt happen overnight.
Self-love for some can be a long journey of self-discovery and battling inner issues.
And its important to take however long you need and whatever you better do for move into that direction.
Loving yourself when youre 110 pounds, or when youre 210.
Matt Mck
Self-love is doesnt have an end-point, because our identities dont have end-points.
From the moment we are born, to the moment we leave this Earth we are constantly changing.
Constantly learning and trying new things.
Its different for everybody, and everyone expresses it differently.
There is no one-way to love yourself and to show that self-love.
But, I have family, friends, and a significant other who love me.
People who saw the beauty in me and helped me work towards seeing it for myself.
I currently, have someone in my life who helps me when Im feeling down.
Someone who sees my faults, understands my insecurity and loves me anyways.
You are still worthy of it.
No matter what youre going through.
No matter where your journey takes you.
Never for a second believe that you dont deserve love, because you do.
And someones inability to give that to you, does not reflect your worthiness.
You are valid and you are so worthy.
You deserve to be unconditionally loved by others, and yourself.
And I hope you find it one day.
