But the good thing about a fresh new relationship is that the person youre dating has never hurt you.

All of your baggage is from past relationships.

You cant reassure yourself when you start to feel insecure.

The Worst Part About Getting Back Together With Your Ex

Dmitry Berdnyk BRDNK Vision

You cant convince yourself this person would never hurt you because they already have.

When you get back together with an ex, you cant pretend theyre completely innocent.

You cant pretend theyre too nice to hurt you.

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You cant keep bringing up old arguments.

You cant keep harping on how they hurt you three or four years ago.

You cant erase your old memories of them.

You cant take back what happened before.

You cant erase the pain you brought onto each other.

You mightwantto forget what they put you through in the past, but youre always going to remember.

What matters is whether or not youdwellon it.