The worst part is, you aren’t going to grow from everything that happened between us.
Youre placing the blame on everyone except yourself.
Youre not acknowledging the role you played in the drama unfolding.
Julia Cheperis
The worst part is, you arent going to grow from everything that happened between us.
You arent going to put effort into bettering yourself so history doesnt repeat itself.
You arent going to allow yourself to grow stronger from this experience.
Youre going to resist instead.
Youre going to let your stubbornness win out.
The worst part is, you are completely oblivious to how much hurt youve caused.
Youre so centered on yourself that youre missing how deeply youve wounded the people around you.
Or, worse, you think the hurt youre causing is well-deserved.
You think youre the good guy in the situation.
You arent going to use what happened as a lesson, a reminder that your words and actions matter.
Youre going to keep making excuses, so that you dont have to do any of the hard work.
Youre going to pretend youre perfect, so the blame never falls on you.
The worst part is, I had such high hopes for you.
I thought you cared about doing the right thing.
I thought you wanted to be a better person.
I thought you were willing to put in the effort.
I thought you cared about people other than yourself.
I thought you cared aboutme.
But I was wrong.
You arent the person I swore you were.
You werent even close.
The worst part is, youre exactly the same now as you were at the start.
You havent seen the error of your ways.
You havent owned up to the fact that you made mistakes.
You havent cared enough to take responsibility, and theres nothing more disappointing than realizing that.
Ive learned from my mistakesand from yours.
Im constantly trying to learn, to grow, to make myself a better person today than yesterday.
But the worst part is, you arent able to say the same.
