After all, if their red flags are apparent right away, then you would never fall for them.
You would know better and would take your heart elsewhere.
Once you realize theyre toxic, youre going to ask yourself how you missed the signs.
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Youre going to feel silly for having the wool pulled over your eyes.
They knew exactly what they were doing.
After all, this person is so charming in public.
They think youre lucky to have each other because they put on a performance when others are around.
Humans who are secretly toxic pride themselves on their reputation.
Because everyone feels like theyresuch a good guy,itll be hard for you to change their mind.
Youll end up looking like the bad guy which is exactly what this person wants.
After all, youve seen them at their best.
Youve been spoiled rotten by them, complimented by them, wooed by them.
Youll convince yourself that things will be better again soon.
But youre only lying to yourself.
And thats what this person wants.
They want you to give them the benefit of the doubt.
They want you to continue trusting them after they give you every reason to leave.
But you dont deserve to go through that.
You deserve so much more.
You already have your heart set on staying with them.
And you wont want to say goodbye.
