With every person comes a zodiac sign and an attachment style.
Sometimes it can be a mix of two styles.
I mean…it’s basic science.
Nathan McBride
The attachment theory highlights the three types of attachments: secure, anxious, and avoidant.
Secure Attachment
How do you know if youre secure in a relationship?
Theres no jealousy or possessive behavior.
Theres only stability and comfort.
You are confident in the other person and confident in the relationship.
When you feel safe and secure enough with someone, then you fall in love.
Your person will give you a sense of home.
Point blank, you know who you are and what you want in a relationship.
Anxious Attachment
Your heart is kinda insecure and anxious.
You expect the worst because youve experienced the worst.
You tend to isolate yourself, especially when youre hurting.
You crave reassurance and sometimes you’re able to be super needy about it.
You overanalyze situations and crave reassurance foreverything.
Youre a perfectionist and that tends to go hand-in-hand with your anxiety.
you gotta know that its okay to be close to someone.
You always seem to need space and you tend to avoid relationships in fear of rejection.
To other people, it comes across as if you only care about yourself.
You think youre #1 and that people need to prove themselves to you.
You dont mind waiting for someone to come around and try hard to gain your trust.
It takes a while for you to open up to someone because you like to be independent.
Youll show love for someone once they prove themselves to you.
You tend to stand your ground as the independent person you are.
Youre a pretty secretive person and it takes a lot for you to open up to people.
Once you do open up to someone, you tend to get a little possessive.
You stick through the hard times because you know that theres always something good to come.
Youre just gonna stand your ground and wait until then.
So maybe you distance yourself then.
Youre afraid they might leave you.
Its a vicious cycle.
and so you just avoid people entirely because you dont know how to handle it all.
With every person comes a zodiac sign and an attachment style.
Sometimes it can be a mix of two styles.
I mean…its basic science.
