Right when you are about to get over them.
At first, you think that youre beingghosted.
You are upset for a while.
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You overanalyze everything you said and did.
You stay up late at night, wondering if they are happy.
You wish that you had some sort of closure, some sort of reason why they went away.
It takes some time, but you get over them.
You will slowly start to forget about them.
Little do you know, they are not out of your life yet.
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They are only hibernating.
In their opening message, they wont apologize.
They wont justify their actions and tell you why theyve been gone for so long.
They will sayheyas if nothing ever happened.
They will play it cool and act like nothing weird is going on.
Every time that you think youre done with them, they resurrect themselves.
And every time you fall for them again, they pull their disappearing act again.
They make it impossible to get over them and impossible to getwiththem.
They make your life a living hell.
Of course, you should never put up with this kind of behavior.
You should never tolerate someone who treats you as asecond choice.
