You apologize when you dont need to apologize.
You draw negative attention to yourself.
You dont pick up on body language.
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Heres what I changed that I havent seen mentioned yet.
-Apologizing for things you dont need to apologize for.
Same with if you sidewalk-shuffle a person.
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Be comfortable in your own skin, find the humor in it and move on.
The world will turn whether or not the others are offended.
-Tangentially, being overly diplomatic.
It just makes you seem like a rug.
-The final one is laughing too loud and often.
Im still pretty guilty of this tbh.
Be conscious of your laughter.
Dont take any of this to mean that you shouldnt be fun and easygoing if thats your personality.
IRL Im the most happy go lucky person I know.
thirtiethst
2.
You choose the wrong moment to speak
Not choosing the right moment to speak while in a group.
If you have something to say, dont say it when other people are mid conversation.
Instead, wait it out.
Every group conversion has a few moments when theres nothing to speak.
When all go quiet.
Thats when you say what you have to say.
If you cant do that, then what you say its just gonna drown unnoticed.
