Sometimes people miss the way you made them feel about themselves.
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Updated 4 years ago,February 15, 2021
They are going to miss you.
Why you wouldnt have been worth the effort.
Tony Ciampa
Areas you fell short in.
Things you could have done better or differently.
Things they didnt like.
What they would have changed.
See, when it comes to real love, most will look passed every flaw and shortcoming.
But someone who is looking for a way out will find fault in even the most minor things.
Someones willingness to fight for the other person.
And thats the only thing that gets attention.
But anything that breaks comes back stronger.
And thats exactly what happens.
You come back stronger.
You come back better.
You come back improving in areas you once fell short in.
But most of all you come back happier without the person.
And just when this happens, the other person begins to look back.
Our brains are programmed to replay the highlight reels of all that was good.
So as time goes on, the person starts to long for what was right.
What was hopeful within you rather than what they focused on before.
What initially was looked at as clingy and caring too much is remembered as genuine love.
What initially was looked at as a distraction is remembered as someone who kept things fun.
Because it is so hard to find someone who loves you unconditionally and genuinely believes you are perfect.
No one is perfect.
Not until you fall in love with them.
And sometimes people miss the way you made them feel about themselves.
Flaws and shortcomings are something we all have but they dont even compare to the good qualities you possess.
It just takes most people a while to see that.
So trust me eventually they will miss you.
Eventually they will regret giving up so easily.
Its just a matter of if their pride and ego allow them to admit it.
We often realize until its too late.
