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Updated 10 months ago,July 10, 2024
You arent destined to end up alone.
If you want to find someone to hug and kiss and cuddle, then you will.
Dont let your insecurities convince you that youre unlovable.
Ardalan Hamedani
Heres an open letter to anyone who thinks theyre too fucked up to find love:
1.
Someone out there is as fucked up as you are.
Youve heard the famous quote: Were all a little weird.
And life is a little weird.
Replace the word weird with fucked up and the saying is spot on.
Were all messed up.
Just in different ways.
Youre not as bad as you think you are.
You grew up with divorced parents.
Youre still a virgin.
Youve been cheated on.
You were the one to cheat on someone else.
Theres someone out there who will be able to deal with yours.
Youre not fucked up the world is.
Its impossible to be perfect in this imperfect world.
So dont be too hard on yourself.
Love is a pretty fucked up thing.
People kill for love.
They die for love.
Its a powerful emotion that can drive a sane man crazy and turn a sweet woman into a psycho.
Theres nothing logical about the way it works.
True love is a bizarre thing.
Only bizarre people can handle it.
Theres someone out there for everyone.
You have some pretty strange friends in happy relationships.
Youve wasted hours wondering how they couldve landed someone while youre still single, but the answer is simple.
Theres someone out there for everyone.
Theyve just found their someone faster than you have.
6. you could change if you want to change.
You shouldnt change yourself for your partner, but if you actually hate something about yourself, guess what?
You have the power to change it.
Stop moping about how shy you are or how lazy you are.
Break out of your comfort zone.
Become the person youve always wanted to be.
Being hard to love is a different story.
You might be hard to love, but youre not too fucked up to be loved.
Anyone worthwhile is hard to love, because they have high standards.
They wont settle for being treated like shit, so they require effort and attention.
And thats not a bad thing.
Give yourself some credit.
Why are you being so hard on yourself?
What caused you to think that youre such a fuck up?
Before you focus on finding someone else to love you, you should really learn to love yourself.
you’re gonna wanna get along with the person you see in the mirror every morning.
You know what that means?
That youre a survivor.
It doesnt matter if you have scars on your wrists or your heart.
Either way, youre alive.
Youve made it through.
Who wouldnt love someone as tough as you?
If you think youre too fucked up to find love, Im sorry, but youre just plain wrong.
They prove that youre not unlovable.
