Aries: You must learn to pick your own battles.
Not every disagreement calls for World War III.
Youre too impatient when it comes to breaking down someones walls.
Rafael Barros
Give your partner time to open up and keep in mind that good things take time.
Work on letting your guard down yourself, and put aside your fear of vulnerability.
Your selfishness mostly stems from your drive to succeed.
Stop thinking about your needs and feelings only, be considerate of those of your mate.
Stop seeking perfection in your relationship and in your partner.
Be accepting of their flaws and imperfections and be mindful of your criticism.
You tend to pick them apart and make them feel less than.
When youre doing it out of love, express your good intentions without tearing them down.
You want to be the starlet of your lovers life.
Their world should not revolve around you, just as yours does not and should not revolve around them.
Let your partner have their own life and dont take it as a direct insult when they do.
Theres no need to get greedy with their attention, or jealous when youre not the priority.
You want to be able to come and go and do as you hey.
Be clear about what you need, when you need it.
You have a habit of showering your partner with excess love.
This can feel suffocating to not just them, but to you.
Youre secretly more dependent on them than you let on, and this almost causes you to resent them.
Spend more time by yourself.
You need space to breathe outside your relationship and to maintain a strong sense of who you are.
Set boundaries with your partner.
Nurture your own passions to never forget how powerful you are.
Make your own social plans solo once in a while and encourage your significant other to do the same.
You must learn to pick your own battles.
Not every disagreement calls for World War III.
Learn to compromise and be patient with your partner.
Youre also drawn to excitement and addicted to the adrenaline rush.
Talk to your partner about adding more adventure into your lives.
double-check your primal needs are being met to keep you from straying.
In your mind, your mistakes, even cheating, are somehow always warranted.
Stop mentally reshaping situations or events to accommodate your stance.
Youre so confident you wont be left, that sometimes you take your partner for granted.
Dont pull back after showing them grand romantic displays of affection.
Youre too guarded and dont let anyone in on your inner life.
You fear that once you do you will be giving someone the power to hurt you.
Your relationship cant reach those heights until you break down your walls.
Let them see your tender soul.
Show them whats beneath those fears of emotional intimacy and vulnerability.
You have an enormous heart, but you close it off easily.
You could be missing out on a good thing if you dont start opening yourself up.
Youre one of the most reliable partners of the Zodiac.
You have this innate need to be needed.
There are, however, times you expect something in return for your efforts and sweet romantic gestures.
Is your great generosity stemming out of a compelling need to give?
Or is there something you want?
Mostly because of your inability to break away from your perfect vision.
Stop controlling every aspect of your relationship.
You think doing so is what will keep it going, but you couldnt be more wrong.
Stop being so domineering out of fear of losing the emotional security and constancy your relationship brings.
Youre making your partner feel controlled and pushing them away.
If you dont loosen the reins, its going to become toxic.
Let things flow naturally.
Your relationship is not a dictatorship.
Listen to your significant other and understand them and their needs.
Stop thinking about what you might get out of your relationship and start thinking about what youbothneed.
Dont get attached to circumstance and miss out on a wonderful emotional journey with your lover.
Learn to compromise and lose your my way or the highway mentality.
Your partner is not offending you by contesting or challenging you.
Get better at hearing the word no.
Stop standing your ground when youre in the wrong.
Youre strong Bull, use that strength to apologize for your mistakes and to be forgiving of your partners.
Youre too jealous and treat your partner like a possession or like a prize youve won.
Respect the autonomy of your partner.
Your possessiveness can be suffocating.
Trust your partner more.
Give them space and let them make their own decisions inside and outside of the relationship.
Your abandonment issues are unfounded.
If you give them room to miss you, they will.
Theyre not going anywhere and you’re gonna wanna accept this as fact.
It builds until you either, fall susceptible to rage, or you pull away from your partner.
Dont lash out and say hurtful things when youre angry or feel hurt.
Convey your emotions, instead.
Dont become distant, leaving your partner confused, either.
Share what youre feeling before you get to this point.
Venture outside of your comfort zone.
Dont get stuck in a rut.
Shake things up a little bit and dont take yourself too seriously.
Judging everyone around you isnt your job, but somehow you always are.
Stop judging your significant other, be more open-minded and realize things arent always black and white.
Be more accepting of their beliefs and views, even if they dont align with your own.
Youre perceptive and skilled at uncovering the secrets of others and those things they hold close.
you better be more communicative with your partner about satisfying your thirst for life.
You cant keep things interesting (within and outside of your relationship) if youre not expressing your desires.
The blame falls solely on you, though, because you tend to lose yourself in your lover.
You give so much of yourself away to them.
Remember to make time to spend with your friends and go out without them.
Dont deny it, you fantasize about someone else who isnt your lover.
Your eyes are always open to the next big thing.
Be careful, or you may be overlooking whats in front of you.
Usually, you never know what you have until youve lost it.
Appreciate everything they have to offer and realize how lucky you are.
Remember what it is about them that made you want to commit in the first place.
Be loyal in body, mind, and heart.
Be honest and stop talking your way around everything.
Confront things head on, even when its not in your interest.
Youre highly erratic and are constantly seeking new thrills.
Dont put your lover on the back burner.
Prioritize your connection when youre spending time together.
Be present with them.
Remember that your needs arent the only important ones.
Your significant other feels confused and restricted by your unpredictable nature.
You do what you yo and come and go as you yo.
Learn to be their constant, even when it feels too habitual for you.
Youre as dramatic as they come.
Youre volatile and even violent when you feel hurt.
Think before you react.
You dont need to constantly make sacrifices or aim to invest 110% to maintain your relationship.
Whatever your reasons are, stop making unhealthy compromises and putting your own needs aside.
Youre deeply in touch with your emotions, but dont express them easily.
Step outside your comfort zone to do so.
you oughta stop staying quiet for keep peace.
Grow a thicker skin and communicate when its needed.
you should probably stop saying things are fine when theyre not.
Bottling up how you feel will end up with you rebuffing, leaving them feeling hurt and confused.
You are extremely emotionally attached, yet refuse to let your partner in.
Stop trying to protect yourself and open up, show them the soft interior inside that hard outer shell.
They cant satisfy your emotional needs if they dont know whats going on inside.
Instead of retreating when you feel hurt or attacking your partner, try being honest.
Tell them youre feeling angry, upset, or threatened.
Arguments, misunderstandings, and disagreements are common.
Having them doesnt mean your relationship is broken.
Dont act petulant and minimize your partners feelings when they do the same.
Having them hold you emotionally accountable or contesting you doesnt make them the villain or the enemy.
Cancer, you better feel loved 24/7.
You have a need for reassurance.
you’re able to even be clingy.
You feel offended when your partner does something solo.
you better learn how to let them have their personal space, without feeling left out.
This doesnt mean they dont enjoy spending time with you.
Sometimes they just need that room to recharge.
You dont always have to know whats going on.
it’s possible for you to suffocate your partner with your attention and need to be in constant contact.
Stop overreacting to little things or magnifying insignificant situations.
Think before you react.
Check in with yourself.
Remember that not everybody is as sensitive as you are.
Your significant other has their limits and may tire of your over-dramatization.
you should probably learn to trust your partner.
You crave security so much that you fear having it ripped away from you.
Learn to trust that they are not going anywhere and that theyre there for you.
Stop doubting the magnitude and depth of their feelings for you.
To say youre moody would be an understatement.
you’re free to appear as Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
Its annoying and it makes your partner feel alienated.
They arent always sure which version of you theyre going to get.
One minute you shower your significant other with affection, the next youre ignoring them.
Be consistent in making them feel special.
Its like the tides with you.
Stop pulling them in only to push them away.
Youre not the sentimental fool youre made out to be.
Youre sly and manipulative.
You expect your partner to adapt to you, but thats not the way it works.
You have to be willing to adapt to them too.
Stop scheming to make things fall into place the way you want them to.
Again, be vocal, open, and honest, about what you need.
Remember that your partner is a person and not your personal ego booster.
Your partner shouldnt have to suffer because of them.
You take all the initiative, you do all the deciding, sometimes even all the paying.
You dont mind any of it, as long as you feel like youre worshipped.
Your other half is quite tired of feeling like a person whos kept.
it’s crucial that you admit that you have control issues lurking beneath the surface.
Work on building a more equal dynamic in your relationship.
Let your partner feel free to pull their own weight.
Take the backseat every once in a while and let your partner take the initiative.
Stop imposing your will on their life and taking action for them where it doesnt concern you.
Let them make their own decisions, do their own work and organize their own affairs.
You become jealous and even controlling when you feel like youre not your partners sun.
Be proud and supportive of your partners pursuits.
Dont be so quick to be tempted to stray when you feel like youre being ignored or neglected.
Accept that you cant always be their number one priority.
You also need to learn to share the spotlight with them.
You must incorporate reciprocity into your relationship.
It cant be all about you all the time.
Show your partner that you also support them and stop feeling eclipsed when theyre the ones shining.
You think everything is about you all of the time.
You dont want to be a part of the conversation if it isnt about you.
Work on your listening skills and stop being so self-involved.
Though youre self-aware, you have a hard time expressing your innermost feelings and thoughts.
Your lover shouldnt just know how you feel.
Communicate with them, not everyone is as perceptive as you.
Although youre adept at understanding their wants and needs, it doesnt always mean you care for them.
You consciously choose to not come through if its in your own interest.
You have no qualms about neglecting the emotional needs of your partner if it serves you better.
you should probably cut this selfish habit out.
Prioritize your bond with your significant other and the foundation you have built.
Dont sacrifice their desires for your own personal gain.
You live in a fantasy world because youre so in love with the idea of love.
You think a harmonious relationship should just happen, but you couldnt be more wrong.
You have to put in the effort and the work to make it prosper.
Sometimes that means listening to your partner and making them feel free to express and fight for themselves.
Stop letting your ego steer your will in the relationship.
Stop blaming your partner when you lose your cool.
Rationalize instead of going by feeling.
Virgo, winning hearts for you is no challenge, its investing your own that you have trouble with.
Tear down your self-imposed walls.
Realize that a lot of your insecurities stem from self-perceived flaws, dont keep these hidden.
You hate, even fear, depending on anyone else.
You dont rely on anyone for anything.
Being in a relationship is about being able to count on someone else for support.
you gotta realize this doesnt make you weak or any less self-sufficient.
Its okay to let someone else be there for you.
Do this for them, they want to know they make a difference.
If youre prepared to commit, you gotta be prepared to express your emotional vulnerability.
Youre a softie on the inside and your significant other loves this about you.
Your partner feels shut out because you dont express your emotions.
Do so, all of them, the good, the bad, the ugly.
Youre strong, but theres no need for you to suffer in silence or struggle alone.
Stop disappearing when youre angry and burying all those emotions.
you’re able to get nasty and vengeful.
Learn to talk to your partner when its necessary to avoid that kind of storm.
Your feelings are always valid, even when they seem opposed to logic.
Learn to think with your heart.
Be more tolerant of their imperfections.
Mistakes dont equate to flaws.
Your unrealistic expectations will only end up disappointing you and making your partner feel bitter.
Be more loving and open-minded.
Attempt to look at the big picture versus focusing on details and scrutinizing your relationship.
Not everything is perfect or problem free in life, and this includes love.
Analyzing everything is counterproductive and will drive both of you to madness.
Most of the time theres no hidden meaning behind things.
Shut off that little voice in your head telling you that something needs to be fixed.
you could be flaky and have an annoying habit of canceling plans just because you feel like it.
Be more considerate of your partners feelings.
Forget your responsibilities from time to time and to hell with your routine.
Do something spontaneous with your partner, ditch your duties to spend time with them.
Embrace being in the moment and dont worry about things not going according to plan.
make a run at feel connected with them when youre alone and forget the world.
Youre completely devoted to your other half, but you also rely on them for sustenance.
This can be draining for your partner and put too much pressure on your relationship.
Learn to feel fulfilled, whole, and content on your own.
You cant have a healthy relationship if you dont strive for balance within yourself.
Trust and have enough faith in yourself to learn how to be emotionally self-sufficient.
You stay quiet and let your partner make all the decisions.
Stop overriding your needs and desires.
Learn to speak your mind and learn to be less sensitive to criticism.
Youre never going to be happy if you dont talk to your partner about your desires and preferences.
Your diplomacy is your downfall.
Learn how to say no, how to stand your ground, how to voice your emotional needs.
Assert yourself and learn how to confront issues directly.
Stop putting your needs and feelings in the backburner, you only end up being passive-aggressive in the end.
Youre a romantic who is ruled by Venus and youre in love with love and everything that is beautiful.
Stop paying attention to the little things and waiting for your lover to make the wrong move.
Your partner is the person standing in front of you, not the idea you have in your head.
Live your relationship without fear of how it looks to the outside world.
Stop punishing your partner for your exs inability to make you feel worthy and valued.
Do not compare your past relationships to your current one.
Stop distrusting your partner for your past rejections and betrayals.
You must also stop doubting yourself and picking yourself apart.
Your partner loves you and knows youre more than good enough.
Most importantly, be yourself in a relationship.
You tend to adopt your partners hobbies and interests, and almost become a reflection of them.
Remain your most authentic self.
Youre extremely dedicated to your partner.
You dont just commit to them, but you merge with them.
Do not lose yourself in the process of becoming one.
Preserve your individuality and respect theirs.
Remember that you are both entitled to personal and emotional autonomy.
Union does not mean fusion.
you might have a bond that encompasses the mind, body, and soul without becoming a single entity.
Learn how to let go of control and stop being so fixated on having the power.
Stop thinking you always have to have the upper hand and let more balance into your relationship.
Youre willful, stubborn, and determined about making certain things go your way.
Have more respect for your partner than employing calculating and Machiavellian methods to maintain control.
Dont use sex as a weapon, either.
You prioritize the little things too much and give a shot to micromanage everything.
Stop putting so much importance into details and see the bigger picture.
This is just yet another way in which you better let go.
You hold your partner to a double standard.
You come off as open, but this is so far from the case.
You show your significant other only what you want them to see.
Stop being so afraid of discovery, love requires vulnerability.
Theres no need to be afraid and theres no need to be embarrassed.
You cant have the deep connection you crave unless you let your partner figure you out.
Stop expecting your lover to be an open book without revealing yourself.
You also need to find a balance when it comes to privacy.
Respect that sometimes you wont be privy to every little thing.
Stop spying on them.
You snoop around on them.
You go through their phone, email, and their belongings when given the chance.
You always feel like theres some truth youve got to find.
Stop invading their privacy and going through things that arent yours to peruse.
you oughta learn to distinguish between your intuition and your paranoia.
Dont let your passion overtake your logic.
Your love can be obsessive and it drives you to have irrational fears.
Work on your intense jealousy and possessiveness, its smothering.
Curb your unpredictability, youre easy-going one minute and then snap the next.
Youre as hot and cold as they come.
You worship your partner one day, then youre aloof the next.
Dont make your partner guess whats wrong with you.
If something is bothering you, tell them.
Dont become passive-aggressive, either.
Youre very difficult to deal with and have so many emotions and they are all hard to manage.
This becomes especially hard when you let your anger build up instead of releasing it.
Stop trying to get even with your partner.
Talk to them, and not once its too late and violence is seething from your pores.
you’re free to still explore the world and seek novelty and knowledge.
Being in a relationship doesnt mean you will be tied down to one place.
Deep down you crave a person to do all this experiencing and exploring with.
Dont be afraid to take the next step.
Allow yourself the life you had before meeting your partner, or you will quickly lose interest.
The two of you’re able to make a bucket list of things to do together.
you gotta remember, though, that relationships are also about routines, daily realities, and stability.
Youre going to have to learn to compromise, too.
Ground yourself and learn how to focus on your partner.
Prioritize them over chasing thrills, and dont make them feel insecure with your constant need to find excitement.
You feel the need to run or stray when you dont feel the initial spark you felt anymore.
Dont be so quick to call it quits or to go against your integrity by cheating.
Relationships arent fun or exciting all of the time.
you oughta learn to be more sensitive.
You let your cool logic overrun emotions every time and you dont have patience for those of your partners.
They are not trying to emotionally manipulate you when they express them.
it’s crucial that you stop assuming this.
Be more open to hearing them out.
Your significant other needs to be heard and understood, too.
You also need to learn to be more emotionally expressive and work on not being so emotionally distant.
give a shot to see their side and lose your arrogance.
Be tactful with your criticism.
you gotta stop letting your work and career eclipse your relationship.
Give the same amount of dedication to your significant other.
You have to put in the effort into your relationship to keep it alive.
Nurture the bond between you and your lover.
Make more time to spend with them and get your head out of the office when youre together.
Loosen up and show them you could have fun.
Dont leave your partner behind while trying to get ahead.
you oughta stop micromanaging your relationship and the time you spend together.
Dont plan out every second of your day together.
Stop being a control freak and let things flow organically.
Lighten up and enjoy the time you spend together.
You cant control everything, learn how to let go.
Youre so driven and ambitious that you tend to want more for your partner than they want for themselves.
You put significant pressure on them by pushing them.
you gotta back off and realize that everyones idea of success is different.
Trust that your partner is doing what makes them happy and whats in their best interest.
Stop parenting them and telling them what to do and how.
Its domineering and it drives them insane and pushes them away.
Treat them like the adult they are.
Stop treating them like your own personal assistant, too.
you should probably realize youre not always the only one with the right answer.
Learn to accept when youre wrong and when a situation calls for you to let go of your convictions.
Youre so focused on your goals that you sometimes lack empathy for your other half.
Be more compassionate towards them and stop lacking in emotion when it comes to your partner.
Stop being so tough when it comes to opening up about your emotional problems.
Let them dig your heart out.
Dont be condescending or a know-it-all, its infuriating and it makes your partner feel put down.
Stop throwing old things in your partners face.
Work on not being aggressive at imposing your beliefs and values on your partner, and respect their own.
There isnt always a right and a wrong, theres just a different.
Your partner feels that its hard to connect with you.
Youre not closed off, but its how you appear.
Youre a deep thinker, but sometimes the only stimulus you need is standing right in front of you.
Give your lover more attention and welcome theirs.
You lack emotional intelligence.
you gotta consider your partner and their feelings more, dont just intellectualize and rationalize everything.
Everyone has different emotions and feels differently.
Exercise more compassion with your lover.
Sometimes all they want is an emotional response from you.
You also need to learn how to lead with your heart and not your head.
Dont overthink everything and listen to your heart more.
Stop repressing your deep emotions and stop controlling what you show others.
Dont turn cold and insensitive out of your fear of intimacy.
Learn how to communicate your needs and how to ask for help.
It doesnt make you any less independent.
Relying on your partner will heighten your emotional intimacy.
Lower your expectations and learn how to be flexible.
Youre impossible to deal with when you think youre right about something.
You have a hard time grounding yourself and you really need to learn how to do so in relationships.
You escape reality and delve into your own fantasy world.
Be present with your partner and dont miss out on whats real in front of you.
Remember that not everything plays itself out like it does in movies or in your imagination.
it’s crucial that you stop being so idealistic, especially when it comes to your partner.
Stop romanticizing everything you see and take a hard look at your partner.
See them and appreciate them for who they truly are.
Come out with it and be clear about what you want.
You get quiet, act distant, or become passive aggressive when you feel unhappy.
You cant expect your partner to just know that youre hurt.
Just because youre intuitive and empathetic when it comes to their emotions, doesnt mean they are.
You feel very intensely, but they cant know what youre feeling if you dont tell them.
Stop pulling away to punish them or testing them by expecting them to fill in the blanks.
Stop avoiding confrontation and hiding your head under the sand at first sight of it.
Youre overly sensitive when it comes to feedback and you oughta learn how to take it less personally.
Youre overly and blindly generous, but sometimes you have to let yourself take and not just give.
Stop being so self-sacrificing or giving in too easily.
You dont always need to be a hero.
Your partner is an adult and can take care of themselves.
you gotta let them save themselves.
Find a hobby to utilize your dreamy mind.
Your passion doesnt need to all go to your partner.
You have a very artistic side to you, explore it.
Stop telling your friend everything about your relationship.
You complain endlessly when something is wrong.
Keep even the good to yourself.
Some things are meant to be sacred.
