She will assume that you are going to hurt her until you prove her wrong.

She has seen two people who swore they loved each other lose that love.

She has stood in the corner and watched as a family fell apart.

This Is How To Love A Girl Who Has Seen Divorce

Brooke Cagle

She has heard the fights, both whispered behind closed doors and screamed between two stories.

She has heard the pretty lies told to neighbors about how everything is perfectly fine.

She has heard the sobs trying to be held back to appear strong.

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She has seen the bottles of booze lined up on the dresser and the bong hidden inside the drawers.

She has felt nervous inside of her own home.

Uncomfortable in the place thats supposed to be safe.

A girl who has seen divorce has seen the worst shades of love.

She has seen the darkest parts of a relationship.

She has seen a scene that she never wants to experience herself.

When you love a girl who has seen divorce, you have to be able to handle hertrust issues.

You have to understand that she is not going to let her guard down right off the bat.

When you love a girl who has seen divorce, you have to deal with her fear of commitment.

After seeing what shes seen, she is going to struggle to believe in true love.

She is going to doubt whether monogamy is meant for her.

You have to keep your word.

You have to tell the truth.

You have to be reliable.

You have to berespectful.

You have to be consistent.

You have to make it clear that you have no intention of hurting her.

You have to show her that her heart is safe in your hands.