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Here are three tips on how to break up with a narcissist - for good.

I am not going to lie to you.

You Have Bigger Things To Become Than Someone’s Girlfriend

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It wont be easy.

Ouraddictionto the narcissist is a deep, intense and emotionally charged one.

As a result, youll probably endure many setbacks on your journey when fully detaching from a toxic person.

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However, therearea few things you will want to know about breaking up with a narcissist effectively.

so that leave, youll have to start breaking that bond.

Atrauma bondis a connection formed between abuser and victim through intense, shared emotional experiences.

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How do you do this?

You start by reconnecting with the reality of the abuse and the abuser.

Thats why I always recommend finding someone who specifically specializes in trauma and emotional abuse.

Youre going to get attempts from the narcissist to make you stay.

for resist these attempts, youll have to be strategic.

A narcissist doesnt like having his or her control taken away.

Breaking up with one is sure to inflict anarcissistic injurythat can induce narcissistic rage.

For more tips on going No Contact, seehere.

Its helpful to build a social internet outside of the narcissist and self-care during this time is paramount.

When youve been isolated by an abusive person, it can be difficult to feel like youre not alone.

You feel like you dont have any options outside of this one person.

I am here to tell you that this is not true, although it may seem like it is.

Everything from Facebook groups to online forums to personalized Skype coaching is available nowadays.

In some cities, there are even local Meetup groups that have formed on the topic of narcissistic abuse.

There is someone out there who may not be in your exact situation but has felt what you felt.