By allowing someone else to…
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Updated 8 years ago,September 12, 2017
She is kind.
She has more attitude than you’re able to handle at times.
She is the most beautiful woman you have ever encountered.
Felix Russell-Saw
Even better yet, she is likely the very best thing to ever walk into your life.
However, there isonecatch.
She doesnt seeanyof it.
Felix Russell-Saw
She has no idea how special she is.
When she looks into the mirror she just sees scars.
She sees the effects of the heartbreak she has endured.
Most of all, she sees her flaws.
All the reasons she feels you wouldnt want to stay.
Maybe its physical and she thinks you cant love her body or her big nose.
Instead of just chalking it up to her being self-conscious, try putting her at ease.
Tell her how amazing you think she is.
They didnt just wake up and decide that they werent worthy of someones love and affection.
They were continuously told they were inadequate and they were constantly made to feel as though they were worthless.
After a while, you cant help but believe it.
So do her a favor and dont get upset when she doesnt accept your compliment.
Its not that she doesnt appreciate it; she is just learning how to react.
She is reading you trying to figure out your intentions.
The last thing she wants to do is open herself up and be vulnerable.
She cant risk you leaving like the rest.
Be consistent in telling her what she means to you.
Hold her close when you might see she is overwhelmed.
Check in on her randomly throughout the day.
Know that its okay to be protective of her.
The feeling of knowing you care makes her feel safe.
Kiss her when shes not expecting it.
Leave her a note in her car to find.
However you choose to show your affections, check that its genuine.
This girl doesnt have the time or patience to try for anything that isnt real.
By allowing someone else to love her, she will learn the kind of love she deserves.
The transformation will be that of night and day.
So why should you put in so much work?
Its quite simple really.
Every bit of work.
She will eventually trust you and learn to believe in herself again.
She will love you so fiercely that you wont know what hit you.
You took the time to love her when she didnt know how to love herself.
You stayed when she didnt think you would.
You proved her wrong and loved her right.
