By not lending them ears when they are having a hard time.
By not lending them your shoulder to cry on when they are depressed or anxious or blue.
By not making it a priority for you.
Oscar Keys
And by not caring as not much as you should.
you should probably have patience in its growth and in its ability to always shift and bend.
You ruin a perfectly good relationship by giving up too easily.
Its not always going to be fun and games.
Its not always going to be a walk in the park.
Sadly, the honeymoon phase isnt going to last forever.
Oscar Keys
It doesnt come apart from a bad night of arguing or a day where you need your space.
But it comes apart if you make a habit of not answering.
It comes apart when you take the relationship and your partner for granted.
It comes apart when you dont give them 100%.
It unravels as soon as you start under appreciating your partner.
You ruin it by snooping in their phone, always wondering if they will find someone better than you.
By not lending them ears when they are having a hard time.
By not lending them your shoulder to cry on when they are depressed or anxious or blue.
You ruin a perfectly good relationship by not caring about what they need and want.
You hear them talk and talk, and you shut them out.
You nod your head and give them eye contact, and tune them out easier than it should be.
You ruin a perfectly good relationship slowly, but surely.
It doesnt come undone so quickly.
It doesnt crumble in one night.
Feelings cant die out that quickly.
Love doesnt just go away.
But you will ruin a perfectly good relationship by not loving your partner in the way that they need.
You will ruin a perfectly good relationship by expecting too much and giving too little.
You will ruin a perfectly relationship by caring too much about yourself and own your needs.
Dont be that person.
Dont be the one who cares less.
preserve your love and your bond.
Love only comes around once in a blue moon.
Dont you dare mess that up.
Dont you dare take great love for granted.
