July - You ruin your life going back to the people who hurt you.
When you let fear hold you back youre missing out on the best part of life overcoming that thing.
Its scary to take a step towards something you dont know.
Sophia Sinclair
Its scary to step out of your comfort zone.
But what should scare you more is routine and staying in one place where you dont grow and learn.
February
You ruin your life living in the past.
You compare it to the present that you wont appreciate until it becomes the past.
March
You ruin your own life by choosing people who arent good for you.
You see the best in everyone and think everyone has good intentions.
A heart of gold who truly believes in always doing the right thing.
With that, you get screwed over sometimes.
April
You ruin your life being your own worst enemy and critic.
Its good to be hard on yourself and hold yourself accountable for mistakes.
But striving for perfection isnt something you will ever attain.
You are harder on yourself than it’s crucial that you be.
You arent as forgiving.
Youll never find the right relationship seeking someone perfect because we all have flaws.
And even those flaws you dislike yourself someone will love and accept.
May
You ruin your own life not making yourself a priority.
Youre a yes person who hates disappointing anyone.
But its important to make your happiness a priority.
Its important to realize when youre running yourself too thin.
Realize that putting yourself first isnt selfish but essential for your own happiness and well being.
June
You ruin your own life when you settle.
You settle not because you dont know what you deserve but you fear getting it and losing it.
But you arent living or fully loving doing anything that way.
Its about taking a chance on things and hoping for the best because thats what you deserve.
July
You ruin your life going back to the people who hurt you.
People hurt each other all the time.
But you hurt yourself more going back to that.
You hurt yourself reopening wounds that havent healed.
You hurt yourself thinking they are going to change.
August
You ruin your own life not living it to the fullest.
Be careful when planning your life and saving and organizing and striving for goals.
ensure every day is one you are proud to live.
September
You ruin your life comparing it to others.
Its a generation where everyone is trying to compete with one another.
If you better yourself and focus on your own track, thats when you are going to improve.
It isnt about other people its about you.
October
You ruin your own life in states of isolation.
Youre guarded and afraid to let people in.
You fear someone getting too close and leaving.
Your defense mechanism is to push people away sometimes when you need them most.
November
You ruin your life by being too negative.
Negativity will destroy everything in its path.
What you project is what you attract.
All of those little things influence your life.
So if you have a negative life theres a chance youve brought that upon yourself.
December
You ruin your life holding grudges.
Forgive and forget isnt your style.
Even when you say you do you still hold onto things and struggle to fully move past it.
Its okay to be guarded around people and be wary of second chances.
But sometimes people do make mistakes.
Your greatest flaw is in only trusting yourself.
