Its important to accept that and know when to move on.
We all have our triggers, and if gone unchecked our affection can quickly turn to obsession.
Of course, when this happens, were like repellent to them!
Christin Hume
Not only that, but we destroy our own inner-peace.
This never seems to happen as easily with healthy love.
The love that feels good, and natural, and comforting.
Yup, Ive been there.
He was exactly my bang out.
It started out innocently enough.
Christin Hume
He walked me out of the office one night when we were the last two working there.
I was owning the conversation, the laugh, the way I could make him feel about me.
Until I didnt.
Until we were seeing each other, regularly.
The awkwardness the next day at work.
The desperation I felt to keep his interest.
Tomake him want me.
Maybe I just need to act a little more nonchalant!
Maybe if I was only more tan with bigger boobs!
Maybe if I act more fun around him!
my inner mean girl screamed at me.
However, it didnt matter how hard I tried.
How I bought concert tickets to his favorite band.
How great the sex was.
How daring and adventurous I could be.
How supportive and loving.
He was not ready or willing to get into a relationship with me and that was that.
So, how do you enjoy dating without becoming too obsessed?
You must re-connect to your own personal power.
You dont need him.
You never have and you never will.
You maywanthim, but you certainly dont need him.
And remember, always, that if something is meant to be it will be.
No amount of trying, striving, and willing a guy to like you will work.
No matter how great the make out sessions may be and how charming you are!
I created a free video series to help you end dating frustration foreverhere.
Try this question on for size.
Do I feel happy with him most of the time, or anxious/sad/angry?
Get to know him.
Be open to all possibilities.
If it doesnt work out, know that it wasnt meant to be.
I know how difficult that can be to believe when youre in the middle of it.
Believe me, I know.
Trust that everything is falling into place.
