Choose to save yourself instead of compromising yourself.
We encounter seemingly insurmountable obstacles.
We feel lost and are unsure just how to overcome the troubles in our midst.
Lisa Fotios
No one person can truly save another.
Each person must understand that they must save themselves, finding the best methods to do so.
You Save Yourself By Letting Go and Walking Away
Letting go of what no longer serves you.
Letting go of negativity, doubt and denial.
What is the point of holding on to something that causes heartache and pain?
Of course we may prefer an easier path, but not only iseasyunattainable, its also usually unrealistic.
Accepting that sometimes things are the way they are will allow us to move forward and understand more clearly.
Not to say that these ways will always make sense, more often than not, they dont.
Trying to understand why systems function or why people act the way they do will only cause undue stress.
Changing our perspective and understanding that control is something we do not have will save us.
Its not that ignorance is bliss,its that acceptance is crucial.
You Save Yourself By Surrendering
Giving up and surrendering doesnt always equal failure.
Sometimes it is necessary to move forward and grow.
You give up when youve given all you might give, when youve done all you might do.
Choose tosaveyourself instead ofcompromisingyourself.
We set the standard of what is acceptable and what is not.
Setting boundaries is perhaps the most important thing we can do for ourselves.
By setting those standards of treatment, we show and stand by our self worth and self-respect.
We should not be afraid of staying true to ourselves and the standards we set.
We are each our own best advocates.
And that should be more than enough.
In creating closure for ourselves, we take back our power, refuse to be stagnant and move forward.
We refuse to put our happiness in the hands of someone else or some bullshit concept of closure.
