You’ll see her name pop onto your phone screen and toss it to the side to answer later.

You’ll casually mention how you should hang out Saturday but never give her an actual time.

Youll eventually read the page-long text she sent and reply with one word.

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Youll casually mention how you should hang out Saturday but never give her an actual time.

Youll keep her waiting.

Youll keep her questioning.

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She wont sayscrew youand look for someone who meets her standards.

She will take yourmixed signalsas positives instead of negatives.

She will be happy you like her instead of annoyed that you dont like herenough.

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Instead, youll push your luck.

Youll treat her even worse.

Youll swipe through dating apps and hook up with random girls behind her back.

Then youll lie to her face about how you havent been talking to any other girls except her.

At least, thats what you think.

Thats where you make your mistake.

She will continue playing nice.

She will continue throwing affection at you and getting nothing in return.

You dont realize that she only stayed for so long, because she really likes you.

Because she thought she could create a real relationship with you.

She is kind, she is patient, but she isnt an idiot.

One day, she is going to give up on you.

She is going to realize that she has been wasting her time on the wrong guy.

And she is going to walk away.

Once that happens, youll be the one having your texts ignored.

Youll be the one waiting for her name to pop up on your phone.

In the end, youll hate yourself for pushing such a good girl away.

Meanwhile, shell be happy she dodged a bullet bysaying goodbyeto someone like you.