This Is The Absolute Best Way To Deal With The Baggage In Your Relationship

I don’t want someone whose baggage goes with mine.

I just want someone who can identify and carry their own.

Thats what happens in relationships when you have baggage that matches your partners.

Troy Freyee

You mistake it for your own.

Maybe you even carry it around for a while.

Maybe you never even notice its not your bag, or that nobody asked you to carry it.

Kyle Cease has this great analogy about fire.

In other words, they need baggage that doesnt match their own to make it grow, to heal.

It also lets other people know that baggage isnt theirs.

I like these people.

Theyre practical, responsible, and creative.

I wanted everyone to see it.

I enjoyed the smiles it created and the way people would point and laugh while I watched and waited.

I loved my baggage.

The extra baggage from one of them slows them both down.

Now, I dont want someone whose baggage goes with mine.

I just want someone who can identify and carry their own.