Only children don’t connect with many people, so when they do it’s something special and rare.
If it were up to them, they would call all the shots.
When they said jump, someone elses response would be, How high?

@kirstylee
This is why an oldest child needs someone who challenges them and busts them out of their comfort zone.
Middle children are used to being, for lack of a better term, caught in the middle.
But because theyre constantly there for everyone else, they often arent there for themselves.

They need someone who believes in them almost more than they believe in themselves.
This is a double-edged sword.
On one hand, it makes them bold, fearless, and confident.

@kirstylee
Youngest children are the life of the party, completely exciting, and it makes people drawn to them.
This is why the social-butterfly youngest child needs to be with someone who brings them back to Earth.
On one hand, their twin is a constant companion, confidant, and best friend.
Being a twin is almost an automatic personality aspect, and its one thats difficult to deal with.
Oftentimes twins struggle with finding a strong and balanced relationship.
This is why a twin needs a motivator; someone to push them and bring them into their own.
It can, and probablywill, take time for a twin to find a true forever relationship.
But this is fine!
Only children are sort of a wild card.
All of this people watching and observation makes them 1) great listeners and 2) very intuitive.
Only children dont connect with many people, so when they do its something special and rare.
They arent going to be the person who falls easily or impulsively; its going to take some time.