Of course, we know this isnt how it works for everyone.
We know that nothing in life, and especially in love, is ever really a linear path.
The answer is yes, though most people dont realize it.
luizclas
The person you have the most chemistry with is not the love of your life.
The person who tells you that they are your soulmate is not the love of your life.
The person who has always been there is not the love of your life.
The person who you have mind-bending sex with is not the love of your life.
The person youve been dating for years is not the love of your life.
This is what separates terrible relationships from great ones, because chemistry is usually not the differentiator.
Its not about who that person is, its about who that person makes you.
This is someone who makes you feel loved for who you most essentially are.
This is what makes someone the love of your life, and nothing less.
Chemistry is actually really easy to come by.
If thats your measure, youll have a thousand soulmates in a life.
Very few have the power to naturally make you want to be the best version of yourself possible.
They do not become your life.
You do have to confront your unconscious beliefs and attachments and fears and assumptions.
You do have to heal.
You do have to break free of whats held you back.
You do have to become a new person, and yet more yourself than ever before.
This is not just a nice option.
This is the purpose that relationships have in our lives.
