They avoid conflict at any and all cost and send mixed messages so you can do so.
The display of affection and adoration leave no room for questioning their motive.
He always (effortlessly, so it seems) says and does the right thing.
Derrick Freske
Do not be fooled by these seemingly honest, innocent guys who are essentially nothing more than dangerous assholes.
Unfortunately,the nice guy can actually befar worsethan the bad boy.
So, maybe we should give the guys who we label as jerks… a break.
At least theyll be honest if their thought and ideas conflict with yours.
Jerky guys recognize that theyre exactly that, and theyre also prepared to make up for it.
He wants to spend time with you, so he must have a sober interest in you, right?
Youll catch him staring at you in awe, just before telling you how perfect you are.
The reason for his attentive behavior is guilt.
Because deep down, hes actuallynotinterested.
They believe they can get away with anything.After all, they are nice guys.
When he does hurt your feelings, its okay because hes usuallysodamnnice.
It mustve been a one-time fluke incident.
He doesnt feel the need to regularly compliment you.
You should know how he feels because he treats you so well.
At least when youre dating a jerk, what you see is what you get.
You know what youre getting yourself into so you arent surprised by their not-so-nice behavior.
If you really think about it, its always the overly confident jerks who arent afraid to pursue you.
Theyll introduce themselves, offer to buy you a drink, and will typically maintain an entertaining conversation.
When theydohurt you, youll end up blaming yourself.You find yourself apologizing and trying to mend fences.
Ultimately, if/when things go sour with a jerk, you saw it coming.
These guys are transparent enough that you arent falsely assuming they will treat you well.
This leaves you questioning yourself and whatyoudid wrong.
Kind of works out nicely that way, dont you think?
In fact, they are nothing more than insidious little creatures in which you should maintain your distance.
