It means knowing that life is not happening to you, it is mirroring you.
We are skeptical of being positive because we associate being negative with being realistic and informed.
But how realistic is it?

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And how informed are we?
How many times was the worst outcome the actual outcome?
Positive people are not on a delusional high, setting themselves up for a hit of reality.

They just arent governed by the idea that whats most scary is most true.
Being positive doesnt mean not acknowledging risks and suffering.
It just means not believing that the worst possible outcome is the most likely.

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Being positive means looking for answers more than problems.
It means being willing to see change.
It means not being someone who only talks about other people and their judgments of them.
It means knowing we will always return to our baseline, and thatwe control what our baseline is.
It means getting help.
It means reserving judgment.
It means not bullying yourself into being better.
It means asking how you’re able to improve your life by just 1% each day.
It means being willing to work in spite of yourfears.
But most of all, it means believing in your locus of control.
It means reclaiming the power that has always been yours.