It means letting down someone who would have given you the world.
Someone who honestly believed that you would never hurt them.
Someone who thought that you were different than the rest.
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Updated 5 years ago,May 22, 2020
Cheating means betraying your persons trust.
It means letting down someone who would have given you the world.
Someone who planned on spending forever with you.
Someone who honestly believed that you would never hurt them.
Someone who thought that you were different than the rest.
Someone who gave you a chance.
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Someone who handed you their heart and trusted that you would treat it carefully.
Cheating means forcing your person to rethink the entire relationship.
It means giving them a reason to replay old memories to figure out where they missed the red flags.
Cheatingmakes your person theoneperson who you were supposed to make happy feel self-conscious.
It makes them doubt themselves.
It makes them think lesser of themselves even thoughyouwere the only person who did something wrong.
Cheating means destroying a lifelong friendship, because things will never be the same between the two of you.
Your person will never be able to look at you the same.
Your person will never be able to trust you the way they used to.
Your person will never forgive you for what you have done to them.
Cheatingmeans giving your person baggage that they will struggle to carry for the rest of their life.
They will always be a little bit paranoid.
They will always wonder if they are being used again.
Cheating means deceiving your person repeatedly onpurpose.
Even if you call drunkenly kissing someone else a mistake, it wasnt one mistake.
It was a mistake when you flirted with them.
It was a mistake when you invited them over.
It was a mistake when you let them touch you.
It was a mistake when you didnt tell them to leave.
It was a mistake when you let your lips touch.
Cheating isnt just one giant mistake its a million little ones.
Cheating means choosing yourself over your relationship.
It means taking the selfish route.
It means not caring how your actions are going to impact the person who means the most to you.
It means that their feelings mean nothing to you.
Cheating means deciding to put your relationship second.
To put your person second.
It means that you arent willing to give up your temptations to dedicate your life to them.
It means you dont have what it takes to stay loyal, to give them what they deserve.
Cheatingmeans you are capable of doing a shitty thing to someone you supposedly care about.
It means your morals are skewed.
It means you arent ready for a real relationship.
