Scorpio: Actually letting people in.
You have a lot of enthusiasm that draws people to you in the first place.
You take the lead without hesitancy and it can mean that your partner feels unheard and unappreciated.
Lisa Fotios
Relationships often require compromise- which you struggle with often.
Its a sore spot that shows up in your relationships more often than youd like to admit.
Sometimes you get ahead of yourself though and dont really fixate on whats happening at the moment.
We like to know we arent kidding ourselves into being with someone who isnt really into us.
However, that insecurity can spread quicker than you planned- and your partner notices.
It can drive people away, even if they are really into you.
You are the dependable person who will go out of their way to help their loved ones.
The part you struggle with is allowing your partner to help you when you need it.
it’s possible for you to see it all playing out perfectly.
You fixate more on the positive aspects than the negative, which isnt always a bad thing.
It can lead to you being taken advantage of more than youd like to admit.
Scorpio: Actually letting people in
You truly do want an intimate relationship.
You crave being committed and willing to do anything to make your partner happy and make them feel loved.
You are always open to something new and you enjoy those experiences.
Despite this, you still wrestle with the idea of feeling limited when youre in a relationship.
Youre capable of working through it, but when you dont your partner can feel like you resent them.
This isnt an unreasonable request- except you dont often tell your partner its what you need.
Instead, you tend to just disappear and do your own thing and explain later.
It may not be your intention, but it does get you into trouble that could easily be avoided.
The part you wrestle with is sometimes feeling like youre the person who cares more.
It can make you feel anxious and uncertain even if your partner is completely and totally into you.
