When you say you arent ready for anything serious, youre tampering with her self-worth.
Youre fooling her into believing that she isnt the kind of girl who deserves a relationship.
That she doesnt deserve good morning texts and hand holding and kisses in front of your friends.
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That she only deserves half of what she wants.
Half of your time.
Half of your attention.
Half of your affection.
That you thinkyoudeserve whatyouwant from her, but she doesnt deserve what she wants from you.
When you say you arent ready for anything serious, youre lowering her self-esteem.
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Youre making her think that theres something wrong with her.
That her body is the only thing she has to offer because her personality isnt good enough.
Youre fucking with her heart.
Youre hurting her more than you could ever realize.
That in the future you might decide to make her your girlfriend.
That in the future you might want her, too.
When you say you arent ready for anything serious, you arent making her like you any less.
Youre making her like herself less.
Youre making her question everything she says and does becausewhy dont you want to be with her officially?
Why do you spend so much time with her if she isnt enough for you?
Why why why…?
Youre making things even worse.
Youre making it impossible for her to get over you.
