Youd rather be the girl he calls when shit hits the fan than not.

Youd rather be the girl he wants to talk to about whats going on his life than someone else.

As a matter of fact, youd rather be that girl for him.

This Is What Happens When You Become His Go-To Girl

Toa Heftiba

Youd rather be the girl he calls when shit hits the fan than not.

Youd rather be the girl he wants to talk to about whats going on his life than someone else.

Youd rather be the girl he calls to vent to than just a piece of ass.

He can get that anywhere, but youre offering him more.

Youve become his go-to.

Youve become the girl that gets a call at 4:30 a.m. and not just because hes drunk.

You hear sadness, worry, anxiety, and fear.

You hate that you might hear all of these things in his words.

Even worse, you hate that you could feel them too.

Your heart breaks for him.

He delivers his news and his purpose for calling.

You discover that he basically wrapped his truck around a pole.

You jump straight up.

You feel your stomach drop.

You feel worry all the way to your toes.

You hope hes alright.

Youre filled with question after question, but instead you just let him talk.

He tells you all about it and how stressed out he is.

You offer logical advice and he continues to vent.

As he continues to vent, you realize hes dealing with much more than you originally thought.

You lend your ear because apparently thats what he needs and he needs it from you.

You leave your questions to yourself because theyre not worth asking.

You just want him to keep talking because you have never had him need you like this before.

Can you kindly come over?

You dont even need him to ask it again.

You already have your shoes on and your purse around your body.

Of course I will.

He needs you and this is not something that happens often.

You dont pay any attention to what it is youre wearing, but you probably should have.

Elephant pajama shorts arent too great of an idea for winter apparel in Northwest Indiana.

You get in your car and go.

You just want to hug him and kiss him all over.

You both lay in bed and everything goes quiet.

He pulls you close and wraps his arm around you.

He kisses your forehead and says, Thank you.

Confused, you respond, For what?

And right there is when itll all seem worth it.

Youll know that answering his call no matter what time it was, was worth it.

Youll know that it didnt matter what you wore over there, you just needed to go.

Youll know that the past few months of going back and forth was totally worth it.

Hes not anywhere near perfect most days.

He pisses you off more days than he makes you smile.

He drinks too much sometimes.

He doesnt necessarily listen to everything you have to say, and he can be a real asshole.

But this is the moment where all of that is completely and 100 percent worth it.

He needed you and you were there.

Continue to be there and be that girl.