Good guys have this challenge they didnt ask for, reprogramming what you expect out of dating.
You wonder about motives or hidden agendas.
You think its too good to be true because most the time in the past, it was.
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You check yourself.
You remind yourself not to get yourhopes upbecause every time someone in the past disappointed you.
You grew painfully guarded to protect yourself because sadly you learned you had to.
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You think everyone is like that.
You think everyone is out to screw you over or just screw you.
You learn to never trust what they say.
You learn they would tell you anything to get what they want.
And after get it, they leave.
So we end up running in these circles.
So when you meet a good guy, it completely throws you off.
And with that, you begin to question not just everyone but you question yourself also.
You anticipate canceled plans you know wont be rescheduled.
You know every line and every excuse.
You analyze everything about yourself failing to realize it was them and not you that was the problem.
So when you meet someone new, you know odds are stacked against you.
Good guys have it a little tougher.
And in return youre doubtful.
They text you back quickly.
They keep the plans you made.
They tell you they care about you and there arent strings attached to it or any obligations.
You wonder how is that possible?
You push them away and they just pull you closer.
You open up to them and they dont cringe about the details youre telling them.
Good guys accept your past wanting to change your future.
And there is something about that unfamiliarity that is both sad and heartbreaking.
There is no hidden agenda or objective.
One person who sees your worth and value.
One person who sees you as who you are not what you might do for them.
They replace the doubt that plagues you with confidence.
They replace questioning you with questioning the people you should have in the past.
And it is through their good grace and manners and kindness that you begin to heal again.
It is because of them you learn for the first time, relationships arent supposed to hurt.
