Youll miss the stupid jokes she made and the way she laughed at them, at herself.
Youll miss how understanding and real she was, even when you didnt always deserve it.
It stops you in your tracks and youre forced to face the truth behind it all.
Jeff Isy
You maybe cared a little more than you originally thought.
Theres nothing wrong with that, and dont you dare get down on yourself for caring.
This is a natural human emotion.
When you spend so much time with one person, feelings develop.
This doesnt somehow make you weak or a person unworthy of the same in return.
Youll start to feel that way, though.
He was great in the beginning.
More than great, actually.
He was damn near perfect.
You didnt want anything more than what you already had.
You were both winning, and it was working out admirably.
In the first few months, you couldnt keep your hands off one another.
The attraction was BEYOND real.
You were drunk on everything about one another, and the best part?
Not a single hangover.
The first thing youre going to do is blame yourself.
Youre going to begin questioning your self-worth.
Am I not pretty?
Am I being pushy?
Is my laugh a little much?
Dont you dare question your self-worth, and boys, DONT YOU DARE MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE SHOULD.
She deserves the truth.
You claim to care about her and her feelings?
Quit being a little bitch and be honest, because if you dont, youll regret it.
Youll start to miss her.
Youll find yourself at the local watering holes a little more often than you should.
Youll find that the grass isnt exactly greener there, but that its greener where you water it.
Youll miss her bobby pins on your window ledge and her panties in your drawer.
Youll miss the stupid jokes she made and the way she laughed at them, at herself.
Youll miss how understanding and real she was, even when you didnt always deserve it.
When you miss her, tell her.
Chances are shes missing you just as much.
Fellas, go get your girls.
