Now that I’m single, I’ve finally come home to myself.
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Updated 4 years ago,March 29, 2021
We are hardwired to find love.
Finding our partner seems like half of lifes purpose these days, doesnt it?
Danka & Peter
In high school and college, romance is the top of our minds.
And even after college, our search for a partner becomes more pressing.
But Ive stopped making it some destination or a rule for myself.
Why, you may ask?
Relationships do that to you.
They make you subconsciously make compromises.
Now that Im single, Ive finally come home to myself.
I wont have to search for this person.
I wont have to force it.
I wont even have to think or fantasize about the one because they will be fluid in my life.
They will come naturally.
And thats all because I am finally honoring me and spending my life living rather than waiting.
The person you become before you meet the one is the person actually living.
It is not the person who is waiting.
It is the person who realizes that it is actually okay to be a whole person by themselves.
And this is when you meet the one.
