What is the point in hating someone when it wont change a damn thing about your current situation?
As of late, I have had an insanely good reason to be and to stay angry.
Someone caused a big hurt, and I wanted to be mad and stay there.
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I wanted to burn in it; I wanted them to feel what I felt.
For some reason, though, this is the first time thathasnthappened.
Forgiveness, oddly enough, is the fuel to a warmer and brighter flame.
Sometimes, that is the case.
However, if it remains your only fuel source for too long, it becomes who you are.
It distorts your good intentions and falsifies your character to the point where you become someone different.
Whatwillchange your current situation is forgiving someone who isnt saying sorry.
What will happen due tothatis something spectacular.
Its allowing yourself the space to be hurt but to also not have to live in that.
But actually implementing that is an incredibly powerful thing that can positively alter the trajectory of your life.
For me, though sometimes anger wins out, forgiveness is the new goal.
Every day I have to wake up and think about choosing it.
Forgiveness, as cliche and basic as it sounds, truly is the only way out.
And truly, allowing yourself to forgive is as much for you as for anybody else.
Give yourself that gift every single day and see what happens.
