And you just cant believe what they are doing instead?
You just dont understand their choices and you think theyre just making obvious wrong decisions.
However, this is not me discussing if a person should stay or not after being cheated on.
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Youre not a robot thats going to press some kind of button and make things instantly change.
Youre a human being with so many feelings, emotions, and complex thoughts.
But what I realized is that we just havent been there.
And even if we have, we havent lived the same exact relationship.
We dont know whats truly happening or going on with these two people we dont get to judge.
You dont get to ask someone how they are still in love with their partner after being cheated on.
You dont get to shame them for still loving the person who cheated on them.
Emotions and feelings are not always things that are in our hands.
We dont get to choose how we feel, it just happens.
Sometimes you still love someone and just keep having feelings for them despite your will.
You dont get to just judge them for missing them after all that has happened.
Being cheated on is something that is more complicated than what it looks like from the outside.
Having external pressure is the last thing a person needs while going through something like this.
After being cheated on, most people just want to be understood.
They want to have a space to process and think about what happened.
