The one who has never tried to change you.
The guy who makes plans he sticks to.
Because he wants to take you to his favorite places and experience it with you.
Clem Onojeghuo
Hes the one who isnt going to have time for games or nonsense.
Someone who is so nice and honest and so real, you question it.
But you also value it.
Clem Onojeghuo
Because something so simple as an answered text or reaching out first shouldnt mean much but it does.
The guy you might sit with in a car and the silence isnt awkward.
The one who plays your favorite artist even though he hates her.
But smiles looking at you as you sing along.
The one who will lean over and kiss you at a red light just.
Then hold your hand as hes driving with one hand.
The guy who knows what a real date is.
From holding open doors and pulling out chairs.
The guy who doesnt let you even try and pick up the tab.
He just says, youll get it the next one.
The throw in of guy who holds the umbrella over you even though hes getting wet.
The one who will send flowers to your office or chocolate just because.
When he brings you around to meet his friends they already know about you.
The bang out of guy who values sex and knows to wait.
The one who makes sure you got home safely.
Hes the trust you have in someone when you used to think you might only trust yourself.
Differentis the only word you might come up with.
Hes the arms that pull you closer when you are tossing and turning at night.
The one you wake up next to and you dont rush leaving.
Hes the five more minutes that might make you late.
The goodbye for now not for good.
Hes the resolution when theres a fight because in the past, youve always been used to people leaving.
But together you work through it.
The one who has never tried to change you from the moment you met.
Even though you have your own flaws, shortcomings, and vices.
But it is in him you find the better parts of yourself.
