Reality:Youre a whirlwind of excitement and growth, and its extremely admirable about you.
Thats just not the best way to be.
ESFJ
Internet:you should probably do everything for people so that love you.
Jerome Licht
Youll only work well in a partnership that revolves around you taking care of the other person.
Reality:You dont always have to do things to earn everyones love.
People love you for you, not what you do for them.
However, this isnt the truth.
Real love gives as much as it receives.
Except love is actually about the give and take.
Its finding someone who cares just as much about you as you do them.
Reality:Your reputation is important to you, and you do your best to uphold it all costs.
In some ways, this truly benefits you.
Youre honest, loyal, and people know they can depend on you if you promise to do something.
Your priorities need to shift.
Yet when it comes to love, this shouldnt be a weight placed solely on you shoulders.
Its an equal partnership and one that you should benefit from just as much as the other person does.
Reality:Love doesnt always look the way we think it does.
It wont be hard for you to find someone who believes the same thing.
ISTP
Internet:That love doesnt have anything to offer you that you cant figure out yourself.
If youre willing to accept it, falling in love could really show you so much in this world.
But love goes through phases.
ISFP
Internet:That love is about passion and romance, pretty much exclusively.
Yet, love isnt just about how passionate or intense the relationship is.
It requires being vulnerable and honest, even when its not always romantic.
Reality:Love is certainly work, there is no getting around it.
Its unpredictable and messy, and it rarely follows the route we think it should.
