How should these differences be handled?
If they truly are our perfect partner, they should just figure this out for themselves.
…ANDthis is not a healthy way to view a relationship.
Matthew Henry
And Heres Why…
Assertiveness can prevent a breakup from occurring.
Many relationships fall apart because one or both partners are afraid to assert their wants and needs properly.
And this leads toFRUSTRATION…BIGtime.
Matthew Henry
If you let something bother you without trying to do anything about it inevitably leads to frustration.
For example, a guy once contacted me about a problem he was having with his girlfriend.
Heres what I advised the guy…
I advised him that he absolutelyMUSTair this grievance with her.
A classic win-win situation.
Rather than the lose-lose situation that would have resulted had not been assertive and aired his grievance.
Being assertive like this, isNOTabout nit-picking every little thing your partner does.
This in time can lead to a sudden outburst of these bad emotions onto their partner.
Sudden outbursts like this are not healthy to a relationship.
This is why you oughta be assertive and get any problems out of the way in a controlled manner.
