Dont ever let someone make you question if what you feel for someone else is true or not.
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Updated 8 years ago,July 16, 2017
Almost relationships.
I hate those words.
God & Man
Because at the end of the day all it is, is someone not choosing you.
Someone watching as you invest your time and effort into them, refusing to reciprocate it.
As a result, its you that ends up broken and hurt.
God & Man
While you fall harder for them, they watch, only they arent doing anything at all.
Developing deeper feelings for someone you cant have doesnt make you crazy.
There is actual science behind it.
The dopamine in your brain is what controls addiction, craving and wanting something or someone.
Then serotonin controls the rapid thoughts in your brain and the nonstop thinking about a person.
But there is also the reverse of that.
Ever wonder why they suddenly crave your attention the second you pull away?
They too are seeking something they arent getting any more.
But regardless of the science, I can throw at you and how much this might make sense.
It does still hurt.
It hurts caring about someone who doesnt feel the same way.
Its hurts being left wondering could this ever be something?
When a relationship ends between a couple theres a start and end there.
So you try and move on but it lingers and youre left wondering.
And thats brave to do.
To love someone fearlessly when they werent reciprocating it doesnt make you foolish.
They are the foolish ones for not seeing your value.
And you deserve someone who does.
And there will be moments you compare that person to the one in front of you.
And those deep feeling derive from trying harder than you had to.
If you loved them as hard as you could just maybe they would reciprocate it.
So you kept trying and didnt give up.
But love isnt supposed to be that hard.
But you do deserve someone who meets you halfway.
Its okay to feel those things.
Dont feel guilty for it.
Getting over someone is a process even if its someone we didnt date.
They are probably trying harder and you dont have to and that feels unfamiliar.
They are probably reciprocating all these things you feel even if it scares you.
After an almost relationship comes fears of letting anyone that close.
Fear of getting hurt again.
Fear of someone deceiving you.
And theres also that fear of finally letting go of someone you invested so much time and energy into.
And I know it hurts to move on.
The moment you begin to, I know they see it.
Suddenly its them trying and it hurts you not to flinch when they do.
But if I can remind you of one thing, those are just words.
Remember, you deserve more than someone who has to lose you to realize your worth.
