When you don’t answer her texts, it shows her where your priorities lie.
It tells her that you don’t care about her.
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Updated 8 years ago,May 23, 2017
You might feel like its not a big deal.
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Its just a text.
Words on a screen.
What does it matter if it takes you half a day to answer her message?
Even if you ignore it completely, who cares?
Its a small thing.
Something she doesnt have a right to get mad about.
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But sheisntmad about the text.
Shes mad about what it represents.
When you dont answer her texts, it shows her where your priorities lie.
It tells her that you dont care about her.
You have better things to do, better people to talk to.
She doesnt mind if you ignore your phone when you have plans.
She understands that you have other things to do, that your life doesnt revolve around her.
Because that proves you have no interest in talking to her.
When you dont answer her texts, it makes her wonder whether you care about her at all.
Maybe she should stop waiting for your reply and accept that its never going to come.
Every time you ignore one of her texts, she slowly pulls away from you.
Because she isnt going to send triple texts.
She isnt going to leave ten voice messages.
She isnt going to force you to pay attention to her.
If you dont want her, you dont want her.
She can accept that.
She can live with that.
How can she count on you to be there when it matters?
She wants someone she can trust.
Someone who makes an effort to talk to her, to make time for her.
Because if you dont care about her, why should she care about you?
