She doesn’t want to bother you.
How shes supposed to feel.
She doesnt lie about being fine to play games with you.
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She isnt expecting you to guess whats really on her mind.
She isnt hoping that youll see past her charade and figure out why shes so upset.
If anything, shes hoping to fool you.
She genuinly wants you to believe that shes okay.
That nothing is bothering her.
She says shes fine, because she doesnt want to ruin your night.
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She doesnt want to bother you.
She doesnt want to look like a drama queen.
Because people have accused her of feeling too hard in the past.
Because she doesnt want to look overemotional, just because shes an overthinker.
She says shes fine, because she doesnt want to start a fight.
She doesnt want you to end up getting mad atherfor being mad at you.
She doesnt want to start a chain reaction shes unable to stop.
But mostly, she says shes fine, because shes trying to convince herself that sheisfine.
Because she thinks that if she pretends hard enough it will become the truth.
Because she doesnt want to be sad anymore.
Dont accuse her of wanting attention or of being difficult.
She isnt lying to get on your nerves.
She isnt expecting you to pull the truth out of her.
Shes only trying to act strong to save you some trouble.
Dont act like her problems are silly.
Like she should stop whining about small things andget over it.
Because if you make her feel stupid for expressing herself, she isnt going to do it anymore.
Shes going to keep everything hidden inside.
Shes going to stop being open with you.
She doesnt want you to think of her as a complainer.
As someone who is too sensitive.
As someone who makes a big deal out of small problems.
That youwanther to communicate.
That youwantto know all of her.
Otherwise, shes going to keep claiming that shes fine.
Shes going to keep thinking shes doing you a favor by locking everything inside.
