Sweet girl, you are allowed to cry, and your feelings are more than validated.
Because it is not about him, its about you.
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Updated 4 years ago,January 7, 2021
I know youre hurting.
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You desperately ransack the reasons behind the gaping hole in your heart.
You continue to search for the reason why you feel so broken and destroyed.
Your love was short-lived, like an unpredictable storm, a sudden bolt out of the blue.
Although he was there, hand and hand with you.
It all felt so vivid and meaningful, but slowly, the memories became hazy and a blur.
I know you cant help but question if he is even worth it.
Worth all your tears and worries.
You cant help but ask yourself, Is he worth the future you still hope to have with him?
You might question your reasons for being so distraught and hollow.
Let me tell you one thing: Hes not worth it.
Because both you and I know its not about him.
It is about the dream relationship you thought you finally procured and the love you know you deserve.
Most people think that long-term relationships have the hardest breakups.
To have your pain validated, you must have pictures and memories to show for devotion.
Anybody who has gone through a short-term breakup will have to disagree.
Because it is about your future and all the love you were ready to give.
It is about the feeling of butterflies in your stomach for the first time.
Sweet girl, you are allowed to cry, and your feelings are more than validated.
Because it is not about him, its about you.
And let me tell you, you more than anyone deserve for your dreams to reach fruition.
So kindly, do not isolate your emotions and rid them of coming to the surface.
c’mon know that it is okay to feel.
