Do not ask him about his day.
Do not send him the new song you found on Spotify.
A pang that can be described as hollow begins to fill your being.

Antoni Shkraba
And then, almost seamlessly, your mind wanders to him.
So you swipe open your phone and scroll to your text thread.
He has been busy, you remind yourself.Maybe I should text him to let him know Im still here.

Maybe your he is a recent ex youre still in contact with.
Perhaps your he is someone youre currently in the midst of a situationship with.
The evidence is inconclusive but theres just thisfeelingyou have that is telling you not to.
Well, if youre looking for a sign, this is it: Dont text him.
Do not ask him about his day.
Do not send him the new song you found on Spotify.
Do not send him that meme that you two would normally laugh over together.
Put the phone down.
Walk away from it if it’s crucial that you.
If this is resonating with you, theres a reason.
But thebiggestsign you shouldnt text him is that fact youre looking for a sign at all.
Thats your intuition talking to you.
Dont reach out because youre only picking at an open wound.
Youre only prolonging the hurt.
Give yourself the space to heal.
Its going to be okay.
But you’re gonna wanna take the first step to do that.
And it might start by not sending this text.