But of the things I do know about love is, it isnt something that you force.
It isnt something you expect.
I know love can turn you into the best version of yourself.
Nick
I know love has the ability to make you the happiest youve ever been.
Love has the ability to change whatever key in of day you are having.
Maybe I put love on a pedestal.
But maybe it deserves to be there.
When I say I love you I always mean it.
I still value three words more than most.
I still value the emotional parts of relationships without attaching that to something physical.
I still believe in old fashion love and that courting and chivalry arent something out of date.
I dont allow technology to change my views or my expectations.
To the person who loves me next…
I dont know who you are.
I dont know where we will meet.
When you fall in love you suddenly realize youll do whatever you have to, to make it work.
People think falling in love is the hard part.
Finding someone who wants to be with you is tricky.
But love isnt hard.
What is difficult is staying in love.
Because you begin to realize love isnt just three words mumbled at bedtime.
Love is choosing someone every single day and doing exactly what you did to get them to keep them.
Love is choosing them if they are there or not.
Love is looking at someone and knowing they are the best thing to ever happen to you.
I dont know if I know too much about love or if I can say Im an expert.
But if theres one thing I know how to do well its to love people.
So to the person who loves me next these are the things I can promise you.
I promise you loyalty no matter where we are.
No matter who comes along and tries to challenge me, Ill always choose you.
I promise effort no matter how hard it might get sometimes.
Because there are some people worth fighting for.
I promise to love you unconditionally no matter how mad you make me.
Or how much I might frustrate you.
I promise to always include you in my plans.
To always be honest with you.
Honest at where my head is at and if ever my heart changes.
I wont ever string you along or lead you on.
I promise to never hold my past against you.
I promise to give as much as I can.
Youll always get 110% of my effort.
But the life I lead is anything solely based on love and a single relationship.
The truth is our relationship will never be my only priority.
I need you to respect and understand that.
Because before there was this relationship was this life I led alone.
A life Im still very proud of.
Just as Ill support and encourage you, I need you to meet me there too.
I look forward to meeting the person who is special enough to make me not want to be alone.
So to the person who loves me next…
I promise to always fight for you.
To never stop choosing you.
To love you the best I can.
When you get it right love has the ability to change every piece of your life for the better.
And when you get it right it has the ability to change every peice of you.
But the truth is its never a choice.
And love never comes when you are ready.
The truth itll sweep you off your feet before you have time to realize how hard youve fallen.
I look forward to sharing a life with you.
