It is possible to be the girl whos independent, and still depend on the guy she loves.
It is possible to be the woman whos strong, and even stronger with her man by her side.
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Updated 6 years ago,December 24, 2018
I want you to know youre not alone.
God & Man
Theres nothing wrong with being independent and strong-willed, determined and self-sufficient, and yet still love to love.
Sometimes the world makes you feel like you have tochooseone side or the other.
If youre going to be the independent woman, then you have to claim your singleness, right?
You have to be distant and removed.
The woman whose emotions and decisions are ruled by love.
But neither of those sides feel right to you.
God & Man
Because you are not the kind of woman who sees men as obstacles in your way.
But youre not the only one who feels this way.
You are an independent andstrong womanwho loves to love.
You are your best self when you are a little of bothself-loving and outward-loving.
And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
You dont have to give up parts of yourself to fall into a relationship.
Itispossible to be the girl whos independent, and still depend on the guy she loves.
Itispossible to be the woman whos strong, and even stronger with her man by her side.
So own who you are, how you love, the way you feel.
What the world doesnt understand is truly how hard you have it.
You live in a continual state of conflict.
But let this be a reminder that you are not the only woman who has this tension.
You are not the only one who shifts back and forth, unsure of where she fits.
So own the parts of you thatflit this line.
Own the parts of you that love yourself, and the parts that love to love.
Own the ways you are not like either side of the world, but have made your own nook.
Own the woman you are because there is nothing wrong with her; she is a perfect mix.
