But trust me when I say she will come around and realize what she messed up.
I always wonder is there any one way which is better to handle it?
Or does one gender hurt more than the other?
Twenty 20
Girls seem to want to talk about it.
Guys mention what happened once or twice and drop it.
They hook up with someone and they do their best to move on.
Twenty 20
Guys are taught from a very young age to not express deep emotions.
To put up a front.
Regardless of how well it might appear like they are doing, only they know if they are hurting.
Girls, on the other hand, will advertise their pain like its some tattoo to flaunt.
From certain things, they share to using social media to cope.
But guys dont have that.
Guys might be falling a part but well never know.
They just arent showing it.
Because its not just a breakup or rejection its a blow to their ego too.
Girls are taught at that same young age how to navigate through pain and feel through things.
Its okay to cry.
Its okay to break down in public drunk and crying in the girls room.
Imagine if a guy did that?
But trust me when I say she will regret it.
Trust me when I say she will look back and you a realize the mistake she made.
Because under the surface of emotions they hide guys are good.
It just takes the right woman to make him be that.
I truly believe pain theyve endured dictates how they act and what they do show of themselves.
Show me an asshole and Ill show you a guy who got hurt by the love of his life.
Show me a player and Ill show you a guy who got beat at his own game.
I think every guy secretly wants to find that girl who makes them better.
So when you do find that and it doesnt work out, guys want to close themselves off more.
Guys egos get hurt more than girls do when they are met with rejection.
I know what its like to stare at your phone wondering when youll hear from them again.
I know what its like to look someone in the eyes and think they are perfect.
Like suddenly your life makes sense because they are a part of it.
So you stay busy to keep your mind off it.
You talk to other girls.
You date and party and sleep around.
Hoping someone can fill the void they left you with.
For some reason, people fail to understand what they have when they have it.
Its only after they lose it and realize it isnt theirs to choose anymore do they miss the person.
Dont give her that satisfaction of thinking youre just waiting.
She just hasnt realized it yet.
When it hits them, theyll come back around and try.
But by that point, you will have already healed.
By the time they realize their mistake youll have learned to love yourself they way they should have.
And this person will come back into your life saying everything you wish they said sooner when you cared.
But youll realize its too late.
It shouldnt take someone so long to realize your value and worth.
Because the right person will realize it from the start.
The right person will reciprocate it.
The right person wont have to lose you or hurt you to realize they messed up.
You deserve the best person there is.
And I know you think this girl might have been it.
But if shes the best there is, you still deserve better.
