If your man doesnt come to you with his problems, then he doesnt see you as his support.
And being each others support system is the whole reason why human beings partner up in the first place.
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Updated 7 years ago,August 26, 2018
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Jimmy Chang
He doesnt fully trust you.
Trust is the foundation of every healthy and happy relationship.
There are no exceptions to this rule.
Jimmy Chang
If the person youre with doesnt trust you, then the two of you will never make it work.
Have you ever really thought about why we partner up in life?
Surely, there are many ways to live life other than searching for someone to spend your life with.
We partner up because we need to partner up.
We need support and stability as well as human interaction in our lives.
These arent things we want; theyre things we need so you can enjoy our lives.
The bond that forms once a deep level of trust is created is truly an incredible thing.
He doesnt go to you with his problems.
Trust is one thing.
Just like developing trust, developing this level of support takes time.
You have to get to know each other on a deep enough level.
Real love is basically intense admiration.
If he doesnt admire you now, it doesnt necessarily mean he never will.
But until he does, things wont feel entirely right.
Youll know that something is missing.
You dont feel loved.
Relationships are never, ever perfect.
The effort were willing to put into them decides how much love were able to pull out of them.
Your relationship is either passionless or filled with too much passion.
Passion is an amazing thing.
Its the energy that seems to only exist the moment you two touch.
However, everything has its limits.
Too much of even the most amazing things can become destructive.
Too much energy and the relationship can explode.
Passion never travels alone.
Its always accompanied by at least one if its companions: jealousy, fear, sadness, and/or anger.
Passion moves us; how it moves us, however, differs.
Passion can be destructive.
But at the same time, its necessary to sustain a romantic relationship.
He doesnt make you feel safe and secure.
Does he make you feel like your home, no matter where the two of you are?
Do you make him feel that way?
As we get older, these lessons become more deeply engrained in our psyche.
In other words, its not your fault if you dont feel safe in each others arms.
Its not his fault either.
So dont blame yourself.
Dont have a go at force things.
Some people just make better friends than soulmates.
