Seriously guys, tell us if you aren’t into us.
Tell us if you aren’t ready to date.
Tell us whatever the hell your excuse is.
God & Man
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Updated 6 years ago,August 23, 2019
Lets talk about ghosting, shall we?
In short its infuriating, insulting, cowardly, and makes anybody feel like completeshit.
I cant even name all of the people who have ghosted me, because its SO MANY.
I thought it would stop after college.
I thought people would grow up.
Unfortunately, Ive come to the conclusion that everyone 23 and up thinks they live in Neverland.
God & Man
But life is not a disney story.
And even Peter Pan had to watch Wendy grow up.
We all have to move on from childhood to adulthood one day.
Its simple, really.
Its so much more cordial than cutting someone out of your life completely.
Its so much more gentler than not responding ever again.
Its called being a decent human being.
Its called being agood person, even if it hurts the other person on the other end.
The truth is easier than anything left unsaid.
And ghosting is the most selfish thing you could ever do to someone.
Not only is it selfish, its straight up disgusting.
I talked to this guy on Tinder for three weeks.
He asked me questions about my life, about my career, about my sister and my friends.
We talked until the wee hours of the night.
And every day after that.
Usually, theres no connection at all, or its unrequited.
Because he didnt have the courage to tell me how he felt.
Maybe he got scared.
Maybe he moved to Spain.
I really dont care what the reasoning was, its just the fact thathe did it.
He never showed up.
I played it cool asking if he was ok and if he wanted to reschedule.
A week later I snap-chatted him, asking again if he was okay.
Then I saw that he was active on Instagram.
And I knew right then and there that I had been ghosted.AGAIN.
By someone I was really starting to like.
Seriously guys, tell us if you arent into us.
Tell us if you arent ready to date.
Tell us whatever the hell your excuse is.
So no, ghosting isnt just ignoring someone.
Its playing a dirty game.
Its a cowardly thing to do.
And its really, really not fun to be on the receiving end of the ghoster.
So c’mon, grow some balls, and tell us how you really feel.
