They develop trust issues.
They question whether they will ever be enough for someone.
She wonders why boys keep using her for her body when she has so much more to offer.
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Although its nice to feel pretty for one night, that isnt nearly long enough for her.
She wants to form a strong connection that lasts months, years, maybe even decades.
If shes being honest with herself, she is actually searching for alifelongrelationship.
Besides, she wants to be noticed for more than her looks.
She wonders why history keeps repeating itself, no matter what she does.
They will lie to her.
God & Man
They will trick her.
They will use her for as long as they can.
Some boys have acted like they were genuinly interested in her.
They have gotten her intoalmost relationships, even though theyknewshe wanted a real relationship.
And by then, she feels like its too late.
Girls like her, who keep getting stuck in casual relationships, wonder if she should raise her standards.
If shes actually the one to blame for everything that has happened.
For accepting this kind of treatment.
Maybe she should be more selective with who she lets into her life.
Maybe she should force boys to put a title on their relationship before falling too hard.
She stays up at night, wondering if shell ever find something real.
If anyone will ever call her their girlfriend.
If anyone will ever decide that, yes, she is enough.
Yes, she is all that they need.
Its hard for her to imagine that happening, though.
Its impossible to picture a happy, healthy relationship when all she ever experiences are toxic, short-lived ones.
Even when someone new shows genuine interest in her, she is skeptical.
She assumes that this relationship is going to be a repeat of all the ones before.
Girls who keep getting stuck in casual relationships become cynical.
They question whether they will ever be enough for someone and theyre terrified the answer isno.
